Do These 20 Simple Things To Treat Yourself With Love and Kindness

Self-love doesn’t simply refer to buying expensive things meant to provide physical comfort. Sometimes we are so caught up in trying to please others that we completely forget about our own needs. The modern way of living is exhausting and involves being concentrated upon the future, so it’s easy to neglect the present.

Maybe you don’t fit the society’s beauty standards. So what? You shouldn’t hate yourself because of it. It’s very easy to fall prey to depression and suicidal thoughts when you are utterly concerned with what others think of you. Instead, you should put in the necessary effort to learn how to love yourself unconditionally.


If unfortunate past events have left you struggling with low self-esteem, devote all your energy to reaching self-acceptance. Here is a list of 20 tips that those who understand the importance of being kind to themselves should take into account:

1.Take a vacation

Routine is the number one enemy we all have to cope with. Having a routine has its own benefits, but you should break free from it when the monotony becomes unbearable.

2.Get more sleep

The quality of sleep is closely tied to our mood in the morning. Maybe sleep deprivation is the cause of your incapacity to become more self-accepting.

3.Listen to your favorite music

Don’t underestimate the power of music. A series of studies indicate that music therapy is great for reducing anxiety levels as well as improving one’s mood.

4.Throw a party

Do something out of the ordinary: host a party everyone will remember.

5.Play with your pets


Meditation has a profound effect on both physical and mental balance. You get to connect with yourself and let go of fears and insecurities.

7.Surround yourself with nurturing individuals

It isn’t embarrassing to ask for the support of others.

8.Take matters into your own hands

Even the closest friends can let you down. Don’t count on others when it comes to reaching your goals.

9.Understand that you are unique

There’s no point in trying to adapt to society’s expectations.

10.Buy yourself something special

11.Take up a sport

12.Take a long walk

If you take pleasure in admiring Mother Nature, take a walk in the park alone. If the urban landscape appeals more to you, head down the street and don’t stop until you achieve inner calm.

13.Silence your inner critic

When you got a lot on your mind, you cannot judge wisely. Excessive self-criticism is harmful.

14. Have a thought provoking conversation with somebody you don’t know

Such a discussion can shift your perspective on life, happiness and realization.


Enjoying a good book in silence is the ultimate way to release stress and get rid of self-doubt.

16.Call a friend you haven’t talked to in a while

17. Call your parents

Ask yourself: how long has it been since you last talked to your parents?

18.Donate money or goods

19.Start a journal

Beyond the obvious beneficial effects it has on the brain, introspective writing will help you find solutions to even the toughest problems.

20.Focus on the positive

Eliminate negative self-talk from your life. Going from pessimistic to optimistic requires self-discipline and determination.



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